WHO KNEW?

Les Parrott's book, "THE CONTROL FREAK", reveals some unique insight into the person who wants to change things. When I was a teacher, back in the ice age, these were great attributes; not so good evidently in personal life, especially right now.

Bob says I am spoiled. That is probably true. Tom pretty much let me handle everything that had to do with home and family. My classroom was basically under my control. As a Team Leader and Facilitator, I had to be in charge of how things went in either situation. I was caregiver for both my parents for many years. When I first started working for the theme park, I was promoted several times and eventually to Asst Manager (Coordinator) and first place for seniority in relation to experience time. Again. I was in charge. So, yes. I guess I've had to be "in charge" most of my life.

Being in charge is not something I sought, but seemed to be what I was supposed to do. Now I have to "undo" or relearn what I've done all my life. Change is not easy or something I especially enjoy, but the book gives two hints as to how to start.

First, COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS EVERY DAY. Not especially overwhelming, but a good reminder. Dr Parrott says to actually write down your daily blessings each and every day to "SEE" what God has given us. Secondly, remember the GRACE God has given to us-not just remember it, but pass it on to every person in which I come in contact. Doesn't sound too hard, right? (As Julia Roberts once said in a movie, "We'll See.") {Wiener should be glad I'm practicing Grace}

I can hardly wait to see the experiences today.

First.

1. Family
2. A place to live
3. Friends
. . .